I have been told that more than likely I suffer from ptsd.The reason being is that my formative years as a child I lived in a war zone.that warzone was in my house…The place where i was to feel safe and nurtured.I think it really fucked me up. That was when I started to fear going home,I had more fun at school ,who in grade 4,wants to be at school?.So I think this helps me to explain ?Why I seemed to think differently than other people,react to stress and other emotions,differently,run to the fire so to speak,other than away from it…crave the rush of adrenaline..the scared crying little child hiding in the closet not wanting to leave the warmth or cover..needing that rush to feel alive…to feel real?
I always have taken full responsibility for my actions.I was told that is what a man does.I have always carried the guilt of my failed relationships and my habit of running from responsibilities.I have always considered myself to be completely at fault and the full cause of these failures/disasters. I have always thought of myself as sane and rational,but doesn’t every crazy person say this?
I am now prepared to admit that I may have had some emotional /developmental problems in my past.This is very hard for me,yet explains some stuff…My quickness to anger,over nothing..My desire to strengthen my body and master Boxing ,so no one could ever hurt me again.My failure in most cases to make the right descion.. It fucks with you a little more every year .When after every thing you try… you still fail.You always seem to make the wrong choice or no choice…I cant believe that for the better part of my life I have been living with this guilt,and it has been fucking me up more and more over time…I want to stand up and scream to the world that i wasnt given a fair start.Like all you other lucky bastards that did not have to watch your mother get stabbed in the leg when you were supposed to believe in Santa claus…Its not my fucking fault I couldnt make rational descions.That I didnt know my first kids mother was banging my uncle every weekend I drove there lol..Ican laugh now..What else can she do to me…Oh yeah Sue me for child support for a kid that wasnt mine….See how trusting I was ..All of a suden she wants to move back to Alberta..Wow miraculously pregnant too…coincidence? sure…